Friday, April 29, 2011

Social Media Posts are Being Used as Evidence in Divorce Cases

Information posted on Facebook, Twitter, other social media sites, and email records can all be obtained as evidence in Colorado divorce proceedings. So if you are currently involved in a divorce action where there is potential conflict regarding parenting time, child custody, or the division of assets, be aware that damaging information collected from these channels can be used against you.

Twenty percent of divorces now involve obtaining information about the opposing party via an online social media site, and an increasing number of Denver divorce attorneys say they are seeing more and more evidence obtained directly from these networking channels.

Keeping this in mind, parties to divorce should seek to refrain from posting, and/or eliminate any information on social networking sites that could be damaging. For example, photos of you drinking could be used by your soon to be former spouse to substantiate their claim that your parenting time should be limited to due your inclination towards over imbibing during your parenting time.

Be careful of what you post to your online networking sites and prevent online evidence from letting you present your case in a positive manner.

If you are involved in a Colorado family law matter and need to speak with a divorce attorney, call us at The Harris Law Firm, 303 515 5000 to schedule a consultation today

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

The Complexity of Famliy Law Cases for the Non-Traditional Family Continues

Per the lawyers at The Harris Law Firm, Colorado’s family law team:

Until we have laws that govern same-sex marriage, the family law cases associated with these non-traditional families is going to continue to be highly complex.

A recent decision by the Texas Court of Appeals illustrates the complexity of one particularly ugly gay divorce. The partners lived in Houston but they traveled to Canada in 2003 to get married and then they registered as domestic partners in California in 2005. Because of the restrictions on gay partnerships and parentage in Texas, they arranged for a surrogate in California to bear their child (with sperm donated from one of them). Prior to the child’s birth they obtained a pre-birth declaration of parentage under the Uniform Parentage Act, which is lawful in California. A pre-birth parentage judgment is one of those newly-created legal devices to establish parentage for gay male couples using a surrogate,with both men designated as legal parents even though only one of them has a biological connection to the child. The non-standard nature of this proceeding has become the subject of legal conflict, now that the couple has broken up.

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The California parentage judgment expressly stated that both men were legal parents (and the surrogate would not be a parent) and the underlying documents confirmed that the two men were entitled to share custody of the child. This was not controversial when the couple was together, but now, one of the issues in their dissolution proceeding is whether that implied “finding” of joint custody would be binding on the parties now that they have broken up. The bio-dad took the position that the pre-birth decree wasn’t binding at all, and that even if it was binding the custody determination was not enforceable. Fortunately the state Court of Appeals disagreed with the bio-dad, and confirmed the validity of the California judgment and its implied custody finding.

Straight couples have their share of nasty break-ups, for sure. Thus, what is “gay” about this battle is not its nastiness, but rather, the legal complexity of the partnership and parentage arrangements and how those complexities play out in the dissolution process. And that is what makes this case both instructive and newsworthy.

Rather than simply getting married in Texas, having kids the old fashioned way, and then getting divorced and having a custody battle in their home town, these guys traveled first to Canada and then to California to legalize their partnership. They hired a surrogate to bear their child and used an unconventional (but lawful) court proceeding in California to establish themselves as legal parents. Now, they may find themselves unable to obtain a dissolution of their partnership or marriage in their home state, since Texas courts have refused in the past to “honor” same-sex marriages by divorcing the partners. And, as this case demonstrates, the bio-dad was able to raise the atypical nature of the parentage judgment in an effort to deprive his ex-partner of shared custody of their child.

This case is a sad illustration of the harmful consequences of what may be the worst aspects of anti-gay bias: discrimination in the form of legal complexity! But ideally, in the future all states will allow same-sex couples to get married and to parent children, and all states will adjudicate the inevitable dissolutions in the same manner as the straight ones. There will still be painful high-conflict divorces, but at least the legal complications of the gay divorces will not be so messy — or so legally complicated.

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Monday, January 17, 2011

Harris Family Law – Cooperative Divorce Law

Cooperative divorce law is a new alternative to the traditional court fight. It is a more practical way to help reduce the expense and frustration that normally is associated with going to court. It also provides an inexpensive, efficient, and unique opportunity for divorcing parties to be able to negotiate with one another in a conductive setting for compromise and settlement.

The cooperative divorce approach is similar to collaborative law in that it stresses settlement via the use of informal 4-way meetings with both parties and their lawyers. The parties are asked to sign a Cooperative Divorce Law Participation Agreement in which they commit to the following:

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* An emphasis on civility.

* Avoidance of confrontation.

* Refraining from any counter-productive behaviors.

* Cooperation toward creating and maintaining a negotiator atmosphere that is conducive to reaching a settlement.

* Approaching the issues (and not the other party) as the problem.

* Treating all concerned with respect and civility.

* Voluntarily providing all relevant financial information promptly and without objection.

* Negotiating in good faith toward a non-court resolution.

* Applying their energy and creativity toward coming to a compromise settlement, instead of wasting it on preparations for a trial that only takes place in 1 of every 10 cases.

Cooperative divorce law joins mediation and collaborative divorce as a third settlement-oriented method of resolving conflict. It combines some of the elements of traditional litigation with the collaborative law method. The parties decide what works best for them. Choosing to have a cooperative divorce gives you some control of your divorce and can save you money.

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Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Harris Family Law - Divorce Lawyers - To make it a little less messy!

A wise man once said - wedding is just an event, marriage is a lifelong commitment. Getting married is one of the most important occasions of a person’s life, and people look forward to the day they find true love and get married. While a good number of marriages last through for a lifetime, there are quite a few which collapse midway. Now, that midway could even be within a few months! While no man or woman wishes that their marriage fall through, it is an unavoidable situation in most couples’ lives. Some people decide to stick together irrespective of whether they are compatible or not, and a great number of couples decide to call it quits.

Divorce is never a happy event - though it may appear to be to a few people - and unless handled right, it leaves a scar which will remain all through the person’s life. That is where divorce lawyers come in.

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Our legal profession has several specializations and one such key area is divorce. While some lawyers handle all kinds of cases including divorces and settlements, there are a lot of them who decide to specialize in handling divorce cases, and they are doing a big service to the society by bearing that burden. Being a divorce lawyer is never easy. While most legal disputes arise because of money or property (which again is money), divorce is an issue wrought with emotions, and handling emotions is a real sensitive act. The best divorce lawyers transcend their professions and become true counselors to mankind. It is true that more divorces are settled in lawyers chambers than in courtrooms - and by settlements, we don’t just mean the financial kind. Thousands of couples approach lawyers each day to apply for divorce, and only a few of them manage to get through unscathed.

Though the decision to go in for a divorce is taken in a jiffy, the decision of hiring an experienced divorce lawyer is one which should be thought over carefully. A lawyer who is not well versed with the processes and complexities that accompany divorces will only make a mess of things. There have been too many divorces which got screwed up along the way just because both parties did not take care to get good divorce lawyers.

So we come to the right question - how do we identify the right kind of divorce lawyers? Everyone knows that we are over populated with lawyers and wherever we look, we will find a lawyer or two staring down at us - whether in person, from hoardings, or from the TV. Each one says they are the best, but divorce is too messy an event to take a chance. That is where online directories come in - especially those which have user-reviews incorporated. Since online directories are a dynamic medium where information can be updated in real time, we won’t need to worry whether the phone numbers and addresses are current or not - like in a yellow pages directory. The best online directories also allow users to leave comments and reviews on listings - including for divorce lawyers - and you can read up on a few reviews to ensure that you engage the services of one who suits your requirements the best. For instance, you can choose a person of a similar age group so that empathy is high, or you can choose a lawyer who specializes in property settlements during a divorce if you expect property to become an issue during separation.

Once you zero in on the divorce lawyer you want to hire, make sure that you get all transparent with him/her. Hiding things from your divorce lawyer is not going to help, and not disclosing all information will only lead to embarrassing moments in front of the judge. Make sure that you are prepared for all eventualities - especially if you have kids and you expect them to be paraded through court. If that is the case, better to settle the divorce out of court so that the kids are spared of the bad experience.

Divorce is sad any day. Choosing the right divorce lawyers will make it a little less messy than it already is, and that is the best that one could hope for in the situation.

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Monday, November 15, 2010

Harris Family Law - Divorce Mediation: How Grown-Ups Break Up

Divorce mediation, a calm, rational negotiation to iron out the terms of a marriage’s end, is becoming an increasingly popular alternative to acrimonious traditional divorce litigation.

In divorce mediation, a mediator aids in negotiation between a husband and wife by assisting with communication, acting as a buffer when tempers flare and providing information and strategies to help resolve differences. The benefits of this process are lower costs, less angst and an agreement the parties want to adhere to, rather than one they’re forced to adhere to.

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It’s a fact that a traditional in-court divorce complete with feuding attorneys and out-of-court drama can hit an already suffering husband and wife a knockout blow square in the pocketbook. Typical divorce costs can run anywhere from two to ten times higher than the cost of a divorce mediation.

Many lawyers charge a retainer fee of between $2,500 and $5,000 for typical divorce cases, and also bill the client for any services in addition to the time covered by the retainer. And if the case goes back to court because of subsequent litigation, that’s even more money for the attorney. By using a divorce mediator, divorcing couples can substantially reduce this cost and avoid subsequent litigation by forging an agreement both parties can live with.

Mediation sessions can include the party's attorneys or a neutral attorney or an attorney-mediator who can inform both parties of their legal rights, but does not provide advice to either, or can be conducted without attorneys. Divorce mediators may be attorneys who have experience in divorce cases.

Divorce mediations usually play out like this:

The first meeting: The couple and the mediator will identify what needs to be discussed and decide when to discuss it. They’ll also decide what information, such as tax and property records, needs to be gathered and shared.

After the first meeting, the divorce mediator leads the couple through issues in dispute and helps resolve them, suggesting compromises and strategies to avoid conflict. The mediator may also give advice how disagreements would play out in the court system if negotiations break down and an agreement cannot be reached.

Once the couple has reached an agreement on all issues in the divorce mediation, the mediator writes up an agreement for review by the parties and, if they have them, their attorneys.

Because of the collaborative and communicative nature of divorce mediations compare couples who have mediated their divorce with couples who go through an adversarial divorce, mediating couples are more likely to be satisfied with the process and the results, likely to take less time and spend less money, and are less likely to go back to court later to fight about something.

Divorce mediation keeps you and your spouse in control. That can help in recovering from the break and moving on and enjoying your life.

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Monday, October 18, 2010

Harris Family Law - Marital Agreements

With nearly 50% of all marriages now ending in divorce, it is not unusual for couples to sign a pre-nuptial agreement, or marital agreement, as it is now called under Colorado law. While it is important for couples to be optimistic about their future together, it is also imperative, as it is in the formation of any legal partnership, to discuss the financial concerns that will arise in the unfortunate event that the partnership fails.

When No Marital Agreement Exists

Under Colorado law, the marriage contract assigns property rights for each spouse. For couples who do not have a prenuptial agreement, Colorado law will determine who owns the property that was acquired during the marriage, as well as what happens to that property in the event of death or divorce.
For example, in the absence of a prenuptial agreement, a spouse generally has the right to:

Share ownership of assets acquired during marriage
Share responsibility of all debts incurred during marriage
Share in the management and control of all marital property
Inherit in the estate of the deceased spouse, regardless of what their will may provide

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Types of Assets

The Colorado divorce statutes define two categories of assets:

1.Separate Property
Separate property is defined as assets acquired prior to the marriage, and includes assets acquired by gift or inheritance during the marriage. The Colorado divorce statute provides that each party is entitled to retain his or her separate property.

2.Marital Property
Marital property is defined as assets acquired from the date of marriage to the day of the divorce decree. Marital property is to be divided equitably, but not necessarily equally. This means that if the matter goes to court, the division may be a percentage other than 50/50.

Note: Income from separate property that accrues during the marriage, as well as the increase in the value of separate property that occurs during the marriage is considered martial property.

For example, if a husband enters into a marriage with a piece of commercial real estate valued at $500,000, and the income from the property during the marriage is $100,000, and the property increases in value to $900,000 prior to their divorce, this means that $500,000 of the value of the real estate is the husband’s separate property, but the $100,000 of income from the real estate, and the property’s $400,000 increase in value is marital property.

In drafting a marital agreement, the parties get to create their own ground rules as to what constitutes separate and marital property, as well as how the property will be divided in the event of divorce or death.

Rights Upon Death

In the absence of a validly executed Marital Agreement, when one of the spouses passes away, a considerable portion of his estate may pass to the surviving spouse, regardless of what any will document might state. The reason for this is that the Colorado legislature has determined that it is unjust for a deceased spouse’s estate to pass to someone other than the surviving spouse.

The only way to get around this provision is to have a carefully drafted pre-nuptial agreement that provides the property to pass to someone other than the surviving spouse.

Creating a Valid Marital Agreement

A Marital Agreement may call for a severely one-sided property division, and as unfair as the property division may seem, the Court will uphold the agreement as long as both parties made full and reasonable financial disclosures to the other prior to signing the agreement, as well as both parties knowingly and voluntarily signing the agreement. This means that both parties understand the agreement and how it alters their rights under Colorado law. As long as those two requirements are met, the agreement will be enforced.

Spousal support, or maintenance as it is known in Colorado, is a different story. The parties can agree to waive spousal support if they divorce, or agree to a particular amount in advance of a divorce. However, if the agreement is unfair at the time it is to be enforced, then the court can strike this provision of the marital agreement, although the rest of the agreement will not be jeopardized.

Agreements regarding children's issues such as visitation are not likely to be enforceable, although a properly structured agreement regarding child support could be enforceable.

Conclusion

The marital agreement should fully detail the financial arrangements that will take place in the event of divorce or death. Having a well-drafted agreement in writing can streamline the court case in the event that divorce becomes unavoidable. It is important that couples negotiate and have the agreement written in a way that is clear, binding, and legally sound. It is important for parties to seek the advice of counsel in preparing such agreements based upon the magnitude of rights involved. A well prepared marital agreement will be less expensive in the long run than a poorly prepared agreement, which may involve trips to court and hearings on interpretation and the soundness of the agreement.

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Friday, September 17, 2010

Harrisfamilylaw - Pro bono divorce lawyers

Pro bono divorce lawyers offer free legal services to people or charitable organizations. This free legal service is called as pro bono service. Many people are unable to appoint a good lawyer to represent their case as they lack the resources to pay the fees. However, many legal services and organizations offer legal aid to people who have limited means. There are several legal firms in Los Angeles that have free divorce lawyers Pro bono committees.

Many established and experienced top divorce lawyers , a certain amount of their time to provide pro bono divorce services . With the rise in the number of people trying to utilize pro bono services, many law firms have created programs, to appoint private lawyers who can afford to spare some of their time.

These programs include training for lawyer for divorce to handle common forms of lawsuits.

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Divorce can be messy and difficult. You do not want to have a lawyer that never calls you or that never communicates with you. Before you hire a lawyer, you may want to look up some of your state divorce laws so that you have a better understanding of the situation.

You need to find legal representation and ask your lawyer about certain laws that you can file under. You will need to know what may prevent you from getting what you deserve like a pre-nup. You should also refer to other cases so that you know what to expect.

Sometimes your lawyer may sugar coat the situation, but if you are able to identify some of the things that could help your case, your attorney is also more likely to let you know the truth. They will think that you have some general knowledge of the laws and if you are prepared your lawyer will be straight and honest with you.

If you cannot afford a decent lawyer than you will need to hire a bono lawyer.

Pro bono divorce lawyers have limited knowledge and resources. They may not know the law as well and may want to just settle. If you learn how to investigate, your own divorce than you should be able to tell your pro-bono lawyer to build the case against your spouse and then you will be more likely to get what you deserve in the case.

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